The death of a loved one is an emotional and stressful time for those who were closest to them. Aside from mourning their loss, family members also need to plan memorial services, host Shiva, and create a monument that reflects their loved one’s faith and keeps their memory alive. If you’re unsure about what to include in your loved one’s headstone, our guide will cover the most common symbols and inscriptions you’ll find on Jewish monuments to help you make a decision.
Common Symbols And Inscriptions Found On Jewish Headstones
Hebrew Epitaphs
Many Jewish families add heartfelt inscriptions or important religious symbols on a monument to respect the deceased’s legacy. They generally start with “Here lies” or פ נ in Hebrew and follow with a quick epithet about the person and the epitaph at the bottom. These inscriptions are often biblical verses, prayers, or other religious inscriptions that reflect a loved one’s life.
The Star Of David
The Star of David is one of the most important symbols of Judaism. This six-pointed star represents the connection between God and His followers, the six working days of creation, and other important elements of the Jewish identity. Those who have it on their tombstone want a strong connection with their faith, even after they pass.
Your Loved One’s Hebrew Name
A Hebrew name is essential to a Jewish person’s identity, especially if they’re religious. Most Jewish names are based on family members, but some families choose a name based on holidays or other symbolism. In a Jewish headstone, a person’s Hebrew name usually goes right after the “Here lies” abbreviation.
The Hebrew Date Of Death
The Hebrew calendar has a much longer history than the western one, going back a full 3,670 years before the western calendar we use today. That said, many followers of the Jewish faith prefer using the Hebrew calendar to feel more in touch with their faith. While it isn’t required to include it in a monument, some Jewish families add it alongside their Georgian one.
The Tree Of Life
Also known as the Etz Chaim in Hebrew, the Tree of Life represents the connection between the human and spiritual worlds. It can also represent an extension of God’s teachings, the map of the universe, and the transformation a person experiences throughout their lifetime.
Why Do Jewish People Put Stones On Graves?
If you’ve visited a Jewish cemetery before, you’ve probably seen many headstones covered with stones. It’s a centuries-old tradition for Jewish people to honor their family member’s legacy after they’re gone. Many families bring stones from a particular place their loved one enjoyed, choose a stone that represents their family member in some way, or simply one that looks special to them. There’s no right or wrong way to practice this tradition as long as you keep the memory of your loved one alive.
Final Thoughts
Designing a personalized headstone is one of the most meaningful ways to honor your loved one’s legacy and faith. At Eternal Memorials, we create customized Jewish headstones for grieving families across Long Island, NYC, and beyond. Please contact us or give us a call at (631) 755-1200 to learn more about how we can assist you through this difficult time.